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How To Move On From A Bad Relationship 

It has to end. No matter how painful it is, that time is now. Breaking up is never easy. Deciding to end a relationship, no matter how imperfect it is, will always be emotionally and mentally traumatic. In spite of the imperfections, you did share wonderful and intimate times together. Like what they say, memories are easy to make but are hard to forget and remembering makes it harder to move on. That person you are saying goodbye to has been a part of you. Detaching yourself from him can be very painful and unimaginable. But like everything else in life, think that this too, shall pass and no matter how hard it is to move on, in the end, things will fall into its place.

"Things do happen for a reason" and "What doesn’t kill you can only make you stronger", these clichés are very important to psyche yourself up to move on from a break up. To move on from a bad relationship, you need to remember and do a few things. First, you have got to put it in your head that it is over. No more hoping, no more fantasizing that he will call you and get back together. Once you get this into your system, allow yourself to cry your heart out. It’s healthy to cry because you are actually saying goodbye to him and to his memories. Aside from crying, expect that you will be very angry at a certain level.

You will be angry at yourself, at him or to your friend who introduced you to him. Again, this is normal but you have to deal with your anger in a healthy way. Some write, while others talk it out with friends. Some engage themselves into work, others take boxing lessons. My point is you should have a healthy outlet for all your angst. To move on from a break-up, it also helps if you get rid of anything that reminds you of him. This means removing his number in your cellphone, deleting his pictures in your mobile phone gallery and throwing away all those memorabilia he gave you.

Keeping a remembrance from him can only prolong your state of nostalgia. Don’t torture yourself. Also, if you want to move on from a bad relationship, never romanticize your past. Yes, he was a great lover and he was thoughtful at times but snap out of it! Letting all those mushy things get into your head can make you weak and again make you think twice about the break up. If you want to move on then guard yourself from romanticizing your past. It helps if you jot down the things that you hate about him or the reason why you broke up with him in the first place. Be ruthless and honest, take this note out when you feel weak and had the urge to call him.

How to get over someone who has been with you for a couple of months or years can be depressing but ones you have learned to take care of yourself without him, its not as bad as you think it is. So if you want to move on take good care of yourself. Eat right, sleep right, dance, sing, go to the gym, and hang out with friends. If you feel good physically, you’ll feel good mentally and emotionally. Don’t be afraid to move on, it may be the greatest gift that you have given yourself.

Confused When Choosing a Couples
In matters of selecting a spouse, both men and women have the right to choose the right partner. It is known in Islam whose name is 'kufu' (viable and harmonious), and a guardian has the right marriage partner for her daughter to pick someone who sekufu, although the meaning kufu most common among the scholars is co-religionists.

Other meanings such as matches, is also the meaning that can not be denied, thus SELECTION PROCESS THAT HAPPENS TO ANY MALE OR FEMALE. On the other hand that choosing a life partner by considering the various sides, provided at a reasonable considerations as well as Islamic, the representation is a necessity of life and liberty of God which He bestowed on every human being, including in choosing a husband or wife. Aisyah Ra said, 'Marriage is the essence of servitude, then he should see where his honor will be placed'.

To further solidify the choice if we are confused we can do good istikhorah prayers at midnight and in the beginning, and do it repeatedly. If it has been done many times so DEFINITENESS THAT THERE IS A GOD willing, HIS INSTRUCTIONS, AND THAT'S MORE FOLLOWED. But keep in mind, that information is dominant in a person are often more influential on istikhorah, therefore it needs to be done many times

Prophet also said, 'He who match his honor with the ungodly he had cut her womb' (HR Ibnu Hibban). The Prophet also gave consideration to a sahabiyah who came to him as he requested consideration of two people who would propose, then the Prophet replied, 'As for Muawiyah ibn Abi Sufyan, he's very light hand (aka easy to hit), while the other is that poor people do not have a lot of treasure. " Then the Prophet married her to Zaid bin Harithah.

Globalization is a special phenomenon in human civilization that moves on the global community and is part of the global human process.The presence of information technology and communication technology accelerated the process of globalization is accelerating. Globalization touches all the important aspects of life. Globalization creates new challenges and issues that must be addressed, solved in an attempt harness globalization for the benefit of life. 

Globalization has many interpretations from different perspectives. Some people interpret globalization as a process of downsizing the world or make the world as befits a small village. Some others say that globalization is the unification efforts of the world community in terms of lifestyle, orientation, and culture. In the development of globalization causes many problems in the field of culture, for example, the loss of the original culture of a region or a country, the erosion of cultural values, declining sense of nationalism and patriotism, loss of familial nature and mutual assistance, loss of confidence, and westernized lifestylewesterlies.

Besides today's society is experiencing a severe invasion of pornography in the form of tabloid products, magazines, books in print, television, radio, and is primarily free circulation VCD. Both are coming from abroad or produced themselves. Although media pernografi not new to Indonesia, but never in a wide scale now. Even some foreigners think Indonesia as "heaven pornography" because it's very easy to get the products and the price is cheap pornography. And another example for example, we take a walk in the mall or in public places is very easy to meet Indonesian women dressed in skimpy and spit genitalia. Where the culture is so contrary to the norms that exist in Indonesia. Not to mention the rampant life of free sex among teenagers today. Evidenced by the cast porn video is people of Indonesia.

Here the government is expected to be active not indifferent to see the development of Indonesian society. Appeal and if necessary prohibit many people lunge yabg behaved improperly. For example, when President Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono suggested that television did not celebrate premises rocking erotic navel or belly look. It turned out quite felt the impact, which is not a lot of television show scantily clad artist

From the description and explanation above, it can be concluded that the impact of globalization in fact very influential on the attitudes and culture of Indonesia globalizing world where the phenomenon must be addressed with wisdom and positive thinking because of globalization and modernization is necessary and beneficial to progress. But we should not be careless and complacent, because the era of openness and freedom that also have negative effects that will damage the nation's culture.Resisting globalization is not the right choice, because that means hinder the progress of science and technology. It must be intelligence in the filtering effects of globalization. Access the advancement of information technology and communications can be used as conservationists and developers lokal.Jati cultural values ​​embedded themselves in the region should continue to Indonesian public spirit, and must continue, increasing religious values.

If you want to learn a new language, then there are definitely a few tried and true strategies and tips that you can take advantage of to enhance your success and even have a bit more fun in the process! The thing about learning a new language is that time and repetition are key. The best ways to alleviate boredom and keep yourself on track (especially if you're doing it at home) are to have some fun and make the best use of your time.

1.   If at all possible, watch TV or movies in the language that you're trying to learn. Really pay attention and try to understand on your own. Keep an ear out for words and phrases that you've learned. To make this easier, you can turn on English subtitles.

2.    Read books / magazines / newspapers in the language of your choice. This is very similar to the first tip, but slightly different in that you'll be seeing the words in front of you and reading them, which is a slightly different learning method than listening.

3.    Get a tutor! Look around for international college students in your area who might want to earn some extra money. Use them to help build your conversational skills. The best way to learn a language is to use it, and this is one of the best ways if you can't go to a place where the language is natively or frequently spoken.

4.    Commit to at least an hour a day. Depending on how fast you want to learn a new language, commit yourself to spending an hour a day on it. This is how much time you'd be spending anyway if you were taking a class at school, so don't think you can get away with spending less time just because you're doing it from home. However, it's known that intensity tends to override time spent. For example, spending 4 hours a day for two weeks is better in the long run than spending 1 hour a day for eight weeks.

5.    Start with the 100 most common words. A simple internet search will yield the most common words used in a language (or any language, for that matter). If you can't find a list in the language of your choice, then print out a list in English and do the translations by hand. This will give you the most useful words so that you can have even the most rudimentary of conversations.

6.    Practice in your head when you can. This is one of the best ways to make use of spare time. If you're ordering a pizza, think about how you would say it in the language that you're learning. Even if you're going to turn off the lights in the bathroom, think about how you would say it! This is a great reinforcement technique.

10 Peringkat Bahasa Yang Paling Banyak Digunakan di Dunia

Teman, ternya di dunia kita ada sekitar 6912 bahasa yang digunakan di seluruh dunia. Dari ribuan bahasa tersebut ada 10 bahasa yang paling banyak digunakan di dunia. 

1. Bahasa Mandarin
* Jumlah penutur: sekitar 1,5 milyar jiwa.
* Negara penutur: Cina dan komunitas keturunan Cina lainnya di seluruh dunia. Bahasa resmi PBB.

2. Bahasa Inggris
* Jumlah penutur: sekitar 500 juta jiwa
* Negara penutur: Inggris Raya, AS, Afrika Selatan, Antigua & Barbuda, Australia, Bahama, Bangladesh, Barbados, Belize, Botswana, Brunei Darussalam, Dominika, Ethiopia, Eritrea, Fiji, Filipina, Gambia, Ghana, Grenada, Guyana, Hong Kong, India, Irlandia, Jamaika, Kamerun, Kanada, Kenya, dll.

3. Bahasa Hindi
* Jumlah penutur: sekitar 497 juta
* Negara penutur: India, AS , Mauritius , Afrika Selatan, Yaman, Uganda ,Singapura , Selandia Baru , Jerman , Fiji, Nepal, Suriname, Trinidad & Tobago, Guyana dan Uni Emirat Arab.

4. Bahasa Spanyol
* Jumlah penutur: sekitar 400 juta
* Negara penutur: Spanyol, Argentina, Bolivia, Chile, Dominican Republic, Ecuador, El Salvador, Guatemala, Honduras, Kolombia, Mexico, Paraguay, Uruguay, dll.

5. Bahasa Arab
* Jumlah penutur: sekitar 300 juta orang
* Negara penutur: Arab Saudi, Aljazair, Bahrain, Mesir, Irak, Yordania, Kuwait, Lebanon, Oman, Palestina, Qatar, Syria, Uni Emirat Arab, dll.

6. Bahasa Rusia
* Jumlah penutur: sekitar 278 juta jiwa
* Negara penutur: Rusia, Belarusia, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, Moldova. Bahasa resmi PBB

7. Bahasa Melayu (Termasuk Bahasa Indonesia)
Bahasa Indonesia yang termasuk dalam rumpun bahasa Melayu ternyata berada pada urutan ke 7 dengan jumlah penutur sekitar 259 juta orang. Hitungan kasar ini didapatkan dari perkiraan jumlah penduduk Indonesia tahun 2009 yang mencapai 230 juta jiwa ditambah penduduk Malaysia 28 juta, penduduk Brunei 388 ribu serta sebagian kecil penduduk Thailand, Singapura dan Timor Timur. Jumlah ini mungkin bisa bertambah karena sejak tahun 2007 Bahasa Indonesia telah ditetapkan sebagai bahasa resmi kedua di Vietnam.
Fakta menarik tentang bahasa Indonesia:
* Bahasa Indonesia menduduki peringkat 3 di Asia dan peringkat ke 26 di dunia dalam hal Tata bahasa terumit di dunia.
* Bahasa Indonesia juga mendunia di dunia maya, buktinya wikipedia berbahasa Indonesia telah menduduki peringkat 26 dari 250 wikipedia berbahasa asing di dunia dan peringkat 3 di asia setelah bahasa Jepang dan Mandarin, selain itu bahasa Indonesia menjadi bahasa ke 3 yang paling banyak digunakan dalam postingan blog di wordpress.
8. Bahasa Portugis
* Jumlah penutur: sekitar 240 juta jiwa
* Negara Penutur: Portugal, Brazil, Angola, Cape Verde, Timor Timur, Guinea-Bissau, Makau, Mozambique, São Tomé e Príncipe.

9. Bahasa Bengali
* Jumlah penutur: Sekitar 230 juta jiwa
* Negara Penutur: Bangladesh, India

10. Bahasa Perancis
* Jumlah penutur: sekitar 200 juta jiwa
* Negara Penutur: Perancis, Monaco, Kanada, Swiss, Belgia, Kamerun, Afrika Tengah, dll. 

Nah, itu 10 Peringkat Tertinggi Kategori bahasa yang paling banyak digunakan di seluruh dunia.
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